Question 1:
when awakened, what "powers" should be the first to come?
When will you be able to notice that you have them?
Greetings,
I wouldn't call what we have “powers”. Would you say some one with cancer has “powers”? With our condition, I find that I am more attuned to energies than I was previously. I started to understand why and then connected the dots, so to speak. Haven't you ever did that? This is the reason for this or that. I only know what my feelings where, then. With all people affected with vampirism, it's different for all of us. But we don't have this fantastic oh mighty “power”. We are just people with a need for energies, from whatever source we get it. I hope this answers your question.
Blessed Be
Dunya
Question 2:
Hello, I have a question about empathy, and controlling your inner
emotions in a time of family mourning? Not to long ago my best friend lost her mom. Well I'm very sensitive to people's emotions, just a sad show on TV makes me cry like a foolish girl, and I'm a guy. I try to avoid things that make me feel out of control on the outside. I don't know what to do, Should I go to my friend, although I would be a blubbering idiot? It's draining to me. I told my friend about my vampirism long ago. She knows I feel too
much, so she has not called in a few day's.
What should I do?
Greetings,
I'm sorry to hear of your friend's mom's death. I relate
to what you're talking about. My ex father in law died not to long
ago, I was not that close to the family any more, but I still cried
when reading the obit. I cry at sad stories also. Dealing the sadness
is part of life. It's the way we can help ourselves find our own
personal balance after a death, in dealing with it. We go on. It's up
to us how we do that, if we are going to be happy or sad. We never
forget the lost ones ever. For me Halloween is the time I give to
remember the parted. I find ways to talk to those gone; A walk
through the graveyard is a way to do that. I would be supportive to
your friend - she needs you. However, you need only to do that for short
time each a day. Not way over. Find something positive after the fact. Do
the same for her. Once things get quieted. I find nature things help
with sadness. Animals help too. Perhaps some meditation as well for you. To help ground yourself. Hope this helps. Again, sorry to hear about
your friend.
Blessed Be
Dunya